Friday, March 10, 2017

Do I blush?

Three times in Jeremiah God reprimands the Israelites for losing their ability to blush.
Jeremiah 3:3-"Therefore the showers have been withheld, and no spring rains have fallen. Yet you have the brazen look of a prostitute; you refuse to blush with shame."

Jeremiah 6:15 and Jeremiah 8:12-"Therefore the showers have been withheld, and no spring rains have fallen. Yet you have the brazen look of a prostitute; you refuse to blush with shame."

Recently I have been reading comments about the soon to be released remake of Disney's Beauty And The Beast. It appears that the Director made a statement in an interview that many have seen as controversial: 
"Bill Condon, who directed the film, and is openly gay, told the British magazine Attitude that the manservant LeFou, played by Josh Gad, has 'a nice, exclusively gay moment' in the movie"
(You can find the entire article here: http://attitude.co.uk/world-exclusive-beauty-and-the-beast-set-to-make-disney-history-with-gay-character/ )

     When I first read the article, like many others I was upset and then I had to ask myself why? Why is the thought of a scene in a Disney movie where they expose our children to the LGBTQ life concerning to me?  Why did I immediately decide I would boycott the movie?

     Anyone 50 or older will remember the days when Ricky and Lucy Ricardo (I Love Lucy), who were a married couple, had to sleep in twin beds on television.  The show aired in the 50's and it followed the Hay's Code which had been founded in the 1930's:
            "As it de-sexualized cinema, production code films dedicated themselves to marriage, an institution they were required to portray as sacrosanct. Adulterers were punished and sex outside of marriage was forbidden. Married couples weren’t cleared for lusty displays, either.  To appease British censors, couples slept in separate beds. The bedroom wasn’t the only living space disrupted by the code. Movie bathrooms lost their toilets to avoid the threat of potty humor. The code policed displays of affection carefully. Kisses couldn’t last longer than three seconds and couples had to always keep at least two feet on the floor. Usually it was the man who could not leave their feet,” Kuntz said. “The woman could lay down. She could lie on a couch or a bed. The man could even lean over and kiss her but he could never leave his feet. You could never have the man and the woman simultaneously horizontal.”

That code changed in the 1968 with the implementation of the MPAA system.  Interesting the change occurred because movies like "Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolf" pushed the boundaries of the Hays Code and became hits, thus eroding the code.

So we have gone from what I just described to what we have today.  From one cuss word in 1939's Gone With The Wind to what we have today.  How did that happen?  I surmise that it is because people like me forgot how to blush. So when I began to have the reaction I did to the LGBTQ scene in Beauty In The Beast, the Holy Spirit started talking to me and I had to ask myself "what was the last show you watched where a couple was committing adultery? What was the last show you watched where a couple was cohabiting without marriage (Big Bang Theory)?  The truth of the matter is this blog post probably couldn't contain all the movies or TV shows that I watch and choose to ignore the sin that is being displayed.  Often I "pat myself on the back" for turning the channel if there is nudity (Games Of Thrones) or if a gay couple is kissing or engaged in sex and I do try to research movies before going to see them.  But too many times I choose to not turn off the TV when I know I should.  My line of acceptance keeps moving so that scenes no longer bother me and I accept them more and more.  I have lost my ability to blush.

Am I concerned that Disney, who we trust as being family friendly, cares more about pleasing the very minor LGBTQ community than protecting our children?  Many might argue that our children don't need protecting.  I disagree.  When I was young and wanted to play football with the boys or "cowboys and indians" with our guns, I was labeled a "tomboy".  Never was there any suggestions being made that perhaps I was "really a boy".  I fear the more and more our children are introduced to the idea that your gender is what you "identify with" rather than the actual DNA behind how God created them, then we become a world where anything goes and anything is accepted.  So I ask myself when our children are in their 60's what will make them blush?  

So, while I will probably still boycott Disney (although I was really looking forward to the movie!), I became convicted that I can't just be concerned about the LGBTQ message, as I need to be just a concerned at any message (adultery, fornication, divorcee, drunkenness, lying, etc.) that is contrary to God's best for us all.  I need to revisit what makes me blush and cry out to God "create in me a pure heart and renew a right spirit in me" Psalm 51:10


Sunday, January 01, 2017

Lord, Please Keep Making Me

      It has been six months since my last post.  Seems like it is easier to post a short Facebook thought than a blog.  But Friday as I was listening to Christian radio and I heard a song and the lyrics touched my heart. It is "Keep Making Me" by Sidewalk Prophets.

Make me broken
So I can be healed
‘Cause I’m so calloused
And now I can’t feel
I want to run to You
With heart wide open
Make me broken

Make me empty
So I can be filled
‘Cause I’m still holding
Onto my will
And I’m completed
When you are with me
Make me empty

‘Til You are my one desire
‘Til You are my one true love
‘Til You are my breath, my everything
Lord, please keep making me

Make me lonely
So I can be Yours
‘Til I want no one
More than You, Lord
‘Cause in the darkness
I know You will hold me
Make me lonely

‘Til You are my one desire
‘Til You are my one true love
‘Til You are my breath, my everything
Lord, please keep making me

      This song caused me to contemplate whether I could actually say these words to God? Am I willing to let whatever may be come to me if it means I will be closer the Lord? Can I truly surrender my all to the Lord? I am a long way from being there, but as I look towards a New Year, I thought "what would make a better resolution for the New Year than to say to God 'You can do whatever it takes to me that would cause me to seek only You.' Do whatever it takes for me to be able to say 'You are my one desire. You are my one true love. Your are my breath, my everything.'"
      It is a little scary to say I will totally surrender, because then I actually have to trust with all my heart.  Do I really believe that God is good?  Do I believe that everything that happens to me has gone through His hands and serves His purposes? Do I believe that He will give me the strength to endure anything?  My head says I agree with these statements, but without totally surrendering I can't know whether I will remember those Truths when the trials come.
     So here is to 2017 and my desire to draw closer to the Lord, to seek Him and Him only. God may You literally be present in every breath that I take. When 2017 ends may you and I be as close as a heartbeat. Do to me whatever it takes to move me to where you want me to be. May I be closer to you than ever before.