- Utilitarian-designed to be useful or practical rather than attractive.
When I blogged the letter "M", I wrote about marriage and how opposite my husband and I are but that our marriage works because of our unity in Christ. Well another way that Steve and I are opposites is that I really enjoy getting unexpected gifts. Steve on the other hand doesn't like gifts at all unless I just happen to come upon one that is utilitarian. He won't let you splurge on him with things that he might just enjoy, the gift has to be useful. I have spent 26 years trying to figure out the "whys" of that. It must be something from his childhood. Perhaps he was really looking forward to a present and was disappointed? Of course he can't remember anything like that, so I am just left to guess.
I have told him it just takes the "fun" out of giving when I can't surprise him. And giving socks and underwear is not very exciting. Every now and then I score by knowing something will be useful and he hasn't actually told me what to get. A few times that has backfired, like the time I bought a clock that was suppose to recharge his phone and act as an alarm, only to find out his phone was one generation too old for the clock. Since I ordered it from Ebay I couldn't return it.
Steve is really hard on slippers, so it is a guarantee that every Christmas he gets a new pair of slippers. When we first moved to Colorado it was easier because he didn't have much winter wear, so I had several items (hats, gloves, scarf, flannel, etc.) that I could give him :-)
Now unfortunately, I am not much into utilitarian gifts. So when I got a crockpot and can opener for Christmas I had to be gracious and honestly tried to be thankful as they were things I needed, but I am confessing here, I was less than thrilled. However, I really have enjoyed the remote control candles :-)
Anyway, this is probably the most boring of all my Through The Alphabet Posts, but it is all I could come up with for the letter "U".
Anyway, this is probably the most boring of all my Through The Alphabet Posts, but it is all I could come up with for the letter "U".
The great thing about Steve is he is very easy to please. I just have to make sure the item is UTILITARIAN :-)